people, some of us just look good in whatever we wear, sorry about that. I think the problem both you guys are having is not with the speedos, it is the fact that you both probably would look very gay in them. I happen to have the body to pull it off and if that bothers you, then I am very sorry. many females have told me I look good in them, so again, it is their opinion and not yours that I would consider. how I have come to this post on a comment about my tanning preferences is pretty funny. have a nice day to all.