That is good to hear, brother, which Church? Now you know why my opinion is "obey their every whim."
My mother recently sold our old wood shed for more than a quarter of a million. She has no idea how that makes me feel ;~(
As I got older I learned to fall into line and stay away from those other lines.
I hope your chidren excede your expectations. Some of mine are, one I need to take to that woodshed.
God blessed you.