There are laws against harrassment and stalking in the state of California. It is always a good idea to respect people and their comfort zone in regards to personal contact. I think this is the point that is being made here Wizard. I feel that men should always respect a woman's comfort level when interacting socialy. Jobe had no business being in that camp after being told his presence was unwelcome. If something like this happened to your wife, I belive your perspective would be different Mr Wizard.