Mike,
I only now read your posting.
Obstinate: perversely adhering to an opinon, purpose, or course in spite of reason, arguments, or persuation. 2 : not easily subdued, remedied, or removed.
This is only my opinion I could be wrong. NAAh
Laughing Bear,
The reason you did not detect any bad vibes is cause there are none.
Unless you are able to overlook idle gossip you will always be busy with unnessary trouble. :~) Roy L. Smith