Yikes! A great example of what can go wrong in a hurry. My flying days have similar stories and I shudder at some of them - like a near miss with an Eastern Airlines jet in upstate NY. The lady watching from 14J seemed nervous. Neither the Eastern pilot or I wanted to formally note a near-miss, though.
And as for the You-tube clips... they're funny, a bit nerve-wracking, less than inspiring, or just a good tale on the foibles of humans. Whatever, they illustrate the need for note-taking, precision and remembering to refer to the notes you just took.