I personally don't go to "oogle women".
I am by nature a very friendly and outgoing person and like meeting people and saying hi.
However if a couple wants private time when there are a bunch of other people at the springs, seems kind of selfish.
I always view the DCHS as a community of people with something in common, relaxing, meeting new people.
I don't view DCHS as a place to pickup girls and fornicate in the bushes.
I also don't want to see any strange fluids floating in the tubs...
I am sure there is some common ground here.
If you want private time, or don't want to talk to someone then that's cool, but just say so in a polite way.
"Hey friend, nice meeting you, talk to later OK?"
peace, kevin