Mojave,
The answer is in the movie The Wizard of OZ. There is no place like home ... there is no place like ...
For the LOVE of God I have offered Wizard the answer for free. The answer Is free. But thus far he has rejected the answer.
My anwser for survival is to love God. BUT, to not offend others here I will not go there.
The answer is with in you.
I do not clam to know every thing but, loving God is all you need to know.
Love is the answer !